Too complicated….. In an Indian society when a girl gets married it is very conveniently assumed that post kanya daan she has been adopted by a new home and now that new home which is apparently her husband’s home is her karma bhoomi. Her parents feel relieved that finally they have succeeded in settling their daughters that had been an agenda on mind since she was born. The husband’s home is happy as they welcome a new family member which they think is going to merge in their set up like sugar in water. It all looks so sweet. Our family traditions our values all so visible in both the families. Both the sides gleaming with joy and exhibiting their best foot forward as though they are the best families that the either side could have wished for. These days it’s a mix of traditional & conservative mode of marriage. The boy & the girl chose for themselves, the parents generously accept (as they get relieved from the pressure of finding a suitable match), bot...