Too complicated….. In an Indian society when a girl gets married it is very conveniently assumed that post kanya daan she has been adopted by a new home and now that new home which is apparently her husband’s home is her karma bhoomi. Her parents feel relieved that finally they have succeeded in settling their daughters that had been an agenda on mind since she was born. The husband’s home is happy as they welcome a new family member which they think is going to merge in their set up like sugar in water. It all looks so sweet. Our family traditions our values all so visible in both the families. Both the sides gleaming with joy and exhibiting their best foot forward as though they are the best families that the either side could have wished for. These days it’s a mix of traditional & conservative mode of marriage. The boy & the girl chose for themselves, the parents generously accept (as they get relieved from the pressure of finding a suitable match), bot...
Speaking your mind.is it that bad a thing. why do people say speak the truth when they really do not have the courage to listen! i felt i am a new age women but i really cant understand why being a independent specially when you are a women considered so a vice in our society. Why getting married becomes the sole purpose of life, not for you but for everyone who surrounds you. why parents who believe in equality of boy or girl start differentiating! does being a girl with your own mind and the courage to speak it as well really that bad a thing! why do people aapreciate Kiran Bedi and Kalpana Chawla but hate their daughter when shez on her way to be one of those stalwarts.i will never be able to understand my society. i feel like crying. i feel alone.i feel deserted. Thank god i could blog!